Middle School Parents Discuss Independence and Intervention at “Parenting Adolescents” Workshop
This week, Middle School Director Eve Andrias and Middle School Assistant Director & Dean of Student Life Deirdre Mingey led the second meeting of the "Parenting Adolescents" workshop series.
The workshop's interactive nature allowed attendees to engage and learn from one another, providing a space to parent as a community. In this Thursday’s session, parents considered this quote:
"No parent can shield their child from all discomfort, but that’s not our role — especially not in the tough middle school years as our kids are stepping into their power and getting ready to take on a whole new academic and social world. Our job is not to cushion them from every blow or to make every tough decision for them. It is to activate their powers so they can learn to handle it on their own. We can also let them know they’re not alone — lend them our calm and help them summon the courage, optimism, and strength to persevere when things are tough."
-Middle School Superpowers by Phyllis L. Fagil
The group talked about connections they could make between this quote and their experience parenting. They also learned about developmental shifts children go through in their adolescent years, using those shifts as a lens to discuss scenarios. In these sessions, participants explore themes surrounding middle school-age development. Through conversations and activities, the group addressed questions like “How can we navigate the ups and downs of parenting adolescents?” “What can we learn from our own experiences and coping strategies to support parenting children at this vulnerable age and during this challenging time in our world?” “How can we use our parent community as a source of mutual support and learning?” and “How can we as parents identify when to intervene and support and when to step back and let our children figure things out independently?”